Being here today is so painful 

I can hardly breathe. 

My body is wound tight,

Pain runs through it in waves

I sit on a chair 

and wait for the breath to come. 

It arrives like the sea

Filling up rock pools,

As the tide floods

Mapping points of acceptance and resistance 

As it makes its way in.

Each breath brings grief 

That seems bottomless, 

Grief and breath arriving together 

Requiring me to be here,

Demanding presence.

Every inbreath deep suffering 

Of abandonment, of loss.

Surrendering to pain in the body,

Descending into the place of no protection.  

Nowhere to go. In and out,

Holding, then releasing into the pain,

Releasing the pain into the beyond 

Bathed in grief I emerge

Knowing it’s all just a breath away

Trusting it’s the pathway to 

The mystery 

That holds all of this

Beyond pain and grief, 

Beyond life and death.

I can be at home 

In this very moment